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An encourager blog showcasing male gainers getting fatter through time. A site for guys into gaining and encouraging, bellies, chubby bears, gay chubs and admirers. Chasable is a social network and community for big men and the men who love them—chubs and chasers, chubby bears and cubs, and everyone in between. BiggerCity is the premier dating & community site for gay men of size and the men who love them.

For over 20 years, we have served the community with a safe and fun place to connect, meet, and find love online. BiggerVegas is one of the world's largest social gatherings for gay men of size and their admirers. It's a fun, multi-day event for the Chub/Chaser and Bear communities. I was 19 and still a virgin. There were times in which I challenged them to meet me so they could say that shit to my face.

Hence, Duncan advocates for considering the reflective capacity of individual subjects within the community.

Use all the links below to check out this latest episode in which we chat about vegan condoms, the allure of Mexico City, and the death of Julian McMahon. In this subculture, fatphobia and questions of sexual identity are intertwined in very specific ways: Gay men tend to self-objectify themselves in romantic and sexual contexts, reproduce restrictive body norms by performing what is considered a gay identity and try to resist internalized, homophobic body images.

Every bite, every sip, every pudding forked up at the end of the night contributes to a bigger picture. Loading Comments For some time, it worked. Once, someone called me ugly to my face.

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Welcome to Shoreditch, Plant Shack. It can stand for something. Steven Rupp. A study by University of Brighton researcher Nick McGlynn is spotlighting the often difficult experiences of fatter men in gay spaces across the UK. The Bearspace report unearthed certain themes around the Bear male experience in the UK. But years passed and I felt depressed, and even suicidal. But now I realized that it was such a stupid decision.

Hundreds of men rejected and ignored me, or even mocked me for having the nerve to ask them out. What Unity does is remind us that hospitality can be about hospitality. Secondly, the body norms imposed on heterosexual women by dominant society are reproduced within gay subcultures with comparable intensity. This groundbreaking research explores the experiences of fat gay, bi and queer GBQ men in spaces used and created by Bear communities in the UK, drawing on data from focus groups, interviews and Nick's own observations.

I used to live in Leeds. I have heard all the insults— fat, chubby, ugly. Dr Nick McGlynn. But back to this event. Within this discursive interplay of gender performance, self-regulation, and a partner-seeking culture focused on lean bodies , the gay body is subjected to a triple pressure. It hurt, actually. We are both 51!